Keep in mind that my sound system is completely stock:
When my odometer started flashing, my Blue and Me was not functioning at all. It wouldn't even connect to my phone. Also my glovebox USB stick stopped playing tunes. I tried unplugging/replugging it to no avail. I didn't think to try un-pairing & re-pairing the phone though, which did work after the proxy alignment. It might have worked before that, now we'll never know

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I'd be surprised if a stealership didn't say I needed a new $1k+ part, even though it wouldn't have been true...
The AlfaOBD app shows right onscreen that a flashing odometer indicates proxy alignment is required. Click to enlarge:
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Then it said a code scan-&-clear was required, during which I discovered
ELEVEN faults!
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I have no idea what caused them, but after clearing them I still had to repeat the alignment part I think 4 or 5 times in order for it to finish. 5 times makes sense, since it would be one alignment for each item on the list shown here, until they were finally all done & it showed it was finished:
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The odometer stopped flashing & the USB stick played, but my phone still wouldn't pair, so THEN I thought to un-pair/re-pair & it worked.